How to Start a Sexting Conversation

Sexting is an art. Once you learn how to start a sexting conversation, you’ll find
the rest to be much easier. I like to call this the green-light zone. This
is the transition zone from texting to sexting that we are most concerned about.
Where our fears of coming off too strong are present. We never really know if the girl
will be turned on or scared away. Remember, she is at the other side of cyberspace
not being able to see your body language or hear your tone of voice.

Just like in real life sex, sexting has several stages. You can’t just text a girl
you want to put your thingy in her thingy. It has to be suggested at first.

Suggesting is an indirect way of communicating. This is chick-speak. Guys usually
want to get to the point without “beating around the bush.” Women side step the
point and just hint at it.

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One of My Favorite Sexting Techniques

The Tease

While in the middle of a normal text conversation, you can suggest sex without
saying sex. One method of doing this is an innocent double entendre.

Let’s say that you are talking with a girl about food (great topic btw),
and she says, I feel like eating a ham and cheese sandwich

You can reply by delivering the following text sequence..

“I feel like eating out”
“preferably something really warm and moist”

This is when you wait for her to text you something. The bait has been set, and
you’ve given her a great chance to bite..

She may go right into it, or she may act weird. Do not panic or get overly excited.
The next text will serve as a tease..

“….like pancakes, with hot warm syrup all over”


This sort of tease is what girls long for in their day-to-day life. She is tired
of guys being overly forward with no finesse or style. She wants to be teased and

At this point, a girl already knows what you’re doing. It’s not like we’re trying to
trick anyone. Girls love sex, it’s just the way that you go about it that makes or
breaks it.

Most likely, she’ll mention something about pancakes. Whether she likes them or not,
continue forward. Her opinion of pancakes is *not* the real issue here.


“something like that to munch on.. at this time of night”

Awesome. We are being vague again. Sure we can be talking about her vajay-jay, but
we get away with it with the excuse that we’re really talking about pancakes 😉

Here is the golden rule you must follow:

If you hint about sex in an elegant way, it will be attractive to girls.

In fact, I guarantee you will be surprised when she tells you how turned on she
is by your texts.

Be elegant.

You read my texts, I’m no Shakespeare. All it takes is a couple simple skills.
For gosh sakes, I’m only talking about

You can use skills like these double entendres to turn small talk into sexting.

This means you’ll know how to start a sexting conversation on almost any situation,
by just knowing a few word tricks.

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with about 18 sexting examples illustrating similar sexting techniques. Get it here.

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