What to Do When a Girl Doesn’t Text Back
It happens to all of us. You text a girl, and she doesn’t reply.
Today we’ll talk about what to do when a girl doesn’t text back, what to text her
and how much to text her without appearing too needy.
So this is how your story might go:
You just meet a girl that you really like. She is charming and beautiful.
Exactly your type. You spend a while talking to her, she laughs at your jokes, and
the night goes great. When you two go separate ways, she gives you her number, and
Now you have her in your mind. You imagine the future date you will have with her, and you might even imagine her being your girlfriend.
So then the next day comes along and you call her, and she doesn’t pick up. You
then text her, yet she never texts you back.
Here’s another version of the story:
You are having a text conversation with a girl and things are seemingly going well.
She is texting you back and you two are “connecting” over text. Suddenly you hit
a bump and she never texts you back.
Women are so confusing..
Why does this happen?
First, realize that a girl not texting back doesn’t necessarily mean she’s not
interested. So don’t jump to that conclusion right away. She can be busy.
(Maybe she has work or homework to do)
It is important for you to have a plan of action in this situation.
Whatever you do, don’t send another text until you read the
7 deadly texting mistakes ebook .
What NOT to do When a Girl Doesn’t Text Back
1. Getting mad and accusatory
Although it may seem rude of her to not reply, you are still a stranger to her.
She doesn’t know how awesome you are.
Stop yourself from sending anything like, “I don’t know why you are being so rude!”
If you get mad at her, then she won’t reply for sure. 100% guaranteed.
2. Being Whiney.
She didn’t reply, so now you might have an empty feeling. You must now stop yourself
from getting sad and whining to a girl.
Absolutely don’t text her anything like,
“Why aren’t you replying? I just want to talk 🙁 ”
Here’s what you SHOULD do:
Just as you are merely a stranger to her, she is only a stranger to you as well.
You don’t know her yet, so don’t get pissed or sad about the fact that a stranger
isn’t replying to a text message.
The right attitude is playful persistence. If she doesn’t reply the first time,
wait a day to text again. If she doesn’t reply the next day, wait 2-3 days to text
again. If she doesn’t reply to that, wait a week or so. Anything more that that,
and you gota try something crazy – like one of the 3 hook texts that I provided
in the girl doesn’t text back cheat sheet.
You have to know what to do when a girl doesn’t text back, because it’s going to
happen lots of times. That’s just how women are. So relax and take it easy, it
happens to the best of us.