How to Get a Girl to Like You Over Text

The smartphone has revolutionized communication in a way that makes texting
an essential part of dating. Because of this, you must know how to get a girl to like you over text.

It is often the case when a guy meets a girl (with high hopes), only to ruin it
because they don’t know how to text a girl effectively.

My name is Frankie Cola, and I will guide you through the texting skills that will
make you more attractive to the girl on the other side. You’ll end up getting more dates (and more lays).

You might be here because you want some tips on how to make a text conversation interesting, how to ask a girl out over text, or what to do when a girl doesn’t text back. These are just a few of the questions that are answered at

If you just got a girl’s number, then you’re probably wondering what your first text should be – So we’ll start there.

First Text

It all starts with the first text. You just got her number, and she might not even
remember you that well from last night. That’s why you need to remind her of your name. The best first texts always contain a little call-back humor from your interaction with the girl. Why is this necessary? Because you want to connect with her. She probably got hit on by 17 other guys. You want to be the guy that goes deeper.

Here’s the thing…your first text doesn’t even have to be answered. All you want to do is get on her radar and let her know that you are a real human.
(here’s a good article on good first texts to a girl)

Interesting Text Conversations

If the girl doesn’t answer your texts, there is no way you are going to get
her out. Therefore, you must catch a girl’s attention by engaging her emotions.

Here’s the formula: Emotions = Attention

Make her laugh, curious, suspenseful, or even angry, and you’ll be sure to be on her
mind. There are lots of ways to make texting fun and interesting.
(learn 4 ways to make texting interesting)

If She Doesn’t Text Back

We’ve all had it happen before. You are happily texting back and forth and all of a sudden she stops texting back.
It drives you NUTS! — you never quite know why. Chances are it can be rooted down to some dangerous texting mistakes
you are making.
(learn what to do when she doesn’t text back)

How to Ask Her Out Over Text

Pop Quiz: What is the goal of texting a girl?
Answer: To get her out on a date.

Unless you truly only want to be her text buddy, it is essential that you go for the meet-up as soon as possible.

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