Texting a Girl

Since text messaging is a relatively new technology, the art of
texting a girl hasn’t quite developed yet. Because of this, many
guys blow it when it comes time to text a girl they like.

For example, if a girl you like doesn’t text back, you might most
likely attribute the no-response to loss of interest on her part.
Then you might go crazy trying to figure out if you said something
wrong.

In fact, guys often think the girl is either interested, or not
interested, and they want to know the answer to this question. The
truth, is that most situations aren’t “black and white” like this.
Girls can be interested one day, and turned off the next. The good
news is that YOU have the power to influence this “gray area”.

Before you learn what kind of SMS attracts a girl and keeps her
liking you, you first have to focus on what text messaging should be
used for.

3 Reasons To Use Your Phone

1. Initial contact with a girl you just met
2. To be in her mind until the next time you see her
3. Texting to raise her level of interest

In just a second, I’ll talk about how to text a girl the correct way,
but first, I want to mention some “quick fix” texting mistakes. This
means that you can stop doing certain texting mistakes and you’ll
instantly improve.

After you erase these errors, you’ll be more efficient in achieving
your “phone-game” goals.

3 Deadly Texting Mistakes

Blunder #1: Boring text messages.
If you typically text a girl “hey”, “how you doing”, or “what’s up”.
Stop this immediately. Texts like these don’t show her the flavor of
your unique personality. Plus, you won’t stand out from the other
guys that send her those boring texts as well.

Blunder #2: Texting a girl too much.
SMS messages should be used sparingly to create suspense and intrigue.
If you text a girl too much, she will stop looking forward to your
messages.

Blunder #3: Having long “text conversations.”
Many guys want to have long text conversations to get to know a girl.
This kills all the mystery. Save the “getting to know her” for the
actual date.


Other blunders:

– always texting back too quickly (neediness)
– trying too hard to get her to like you over text
– letting a girl lead (does she always control when the texting ends
and begins)
– Not being fun in a way that sparks her emotions

Never make statements like “I’m bored,” or “Nothing special” when
she asks you what you’re doing.

Instead, be playful, interesting, and intriguing when texting a girl.

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