Things to Text a Girl

Despite their best efforts, most guys aren’t that good at texting
girls. The consequences of texting elude people. You hear stories of
scandals about naked pictures being sent over text – with those
pictures ending up on the internet. There are a few simple rules
you should follow to make sure you get the most out of texting, while
avoiding unwise situations.

Not adhering to these rules lead you to blow your interaction with a
woman. What are good things to text a girl? Here’s a few guidelines
that can be followed by anyone with common sense.

Secrets of Texting Girls

Keep it light and fun. Why? Women see men who try too hard on a
brief encounter with someone as creepy. Why over-invest on someone
you don’t even know? Keep it light, flirt, tease her, build comfort
with her, but don’t ever appear too needy. That is the kiss of death
an interaction.

Add Value To The Exchange

If someone was constantly asking you questions or sending boring
texts, you would find it much harder to respond to them. That’s how
girls feel when guys send them boring messages. The burden of
creating fun is put upon the girl, and this leads to situations
where the girl doesn’t text back. Stupid jokes, fun facts, teasing –
all these things can be used to add value to the interaction. If
you can evoke her emotions with your texts, she’ll want to respond,
and you’re in good ground.

The Point of This is to Eventually Meet Her in Person

This shouldn’t be a surprise, but you don’t want to play “text-grabass”
with her all day until your text bill explodes. If you text her too
long without proposing a meet-up, she’ll start seeing you as some
platonic “text-buddy”.. which is basically in the friend zone.

There’s nothing worse than looking through your message log and
realizing you’ve written her a small novel without any return
(actually going out with her). So while you text a girl, keep in
mind why you do it. To get her in front of you and see her face.
Believe me, seeing a pretty girl’s face turns me on more than
looking at her name in my phone. If you aren’t able to get her out,
you are just texting her in vain.

Draw Her Into Your World

Women go after men who provide value. If you can communicate that
value through text by learning the right things to text a girl,
you’re in good shape. Communicate value by evoking positive emotions
in her, by not being needy, and being intriguing such that she is
compelled to invest in the interaction. She’ll want to chase you.

Whatever You do, Don’t Send a Girl Naked Pictures

Remember to keep the interaction light and fun. Nobody wants
unsolicited pictures of penises. Girls respond to nudity different
than guys. Plus, all it takes is an angry ex to spread your pictures
around. Don’t send your nude pics to anyone.