What to Say When Texting a Girl

Texting is an art, and there are many ways to text a girl correctly,
and incorrectly. When you wonder what to say when texting a girl,
there are many possibilities that arise. You can text a girl sweet,
romantic, sexy, flirty text messages, etc. Today I’m going to show
you some romantic text examples and you will learn why they work.
In particular, these are ways to surprise your girl. I say your
girl because these texts are meant to be sent to a girl that is
already your girlfriend, or something near it. Sending them to a
girl you just met will make these compliment not genuine – and she
will run away from you like a gazelle.

1. “Let’s go out tonight. It’s a surprise.”
Text messages are cool, but they are temporary. I say temporary
because I don’t want you to fall into the trap of being a text-buddy
with a girl. I am a big fan of the real world. Step outside, be in
the moment, have face to face interactions. With that being said,
your purpose in texting this girl should be to eventually get her
out to meet up with you. This text makes that happen. Women like
their men to be dominant. There’s nothing that gets her heart pumping
like a good surprise.

2. You have no idea how adorable/beautiful/ (adjective) you are.
A woman loves to be complimented, especially when she’s not
expecting it (remember that she’s bombarded by flattering remarks
all throughout her day). So when her man sends her a text like this
from out of the blue, the compliment is that much sweeter since she
is caught off guard. Girls love compliments like this because they
makes them feel that they’re worth the time of a lot of people
(and they are since this site exists). Remember, if you are going
to send this message, make sure it is someone you already connect
with and have some sort of relationship. Otherwise, the compliment
will ring hollow. Women know when you’re not genuine and honesty
is key.

3. Got you something. Check outside.
One of the best ways to make your girlfriend melt into your arms is
to surprise her in a dominating, yet light and romantic way. This
one involves some sort of gift. It can even be something you cooked
for her. (“Got you something. Check the dining room table”). This
sort of surprise + dominance + romance is the being “swept off her
feet” that a woman longs for. This can be easy to do. Just think of
something she enjoys (it doesn’t even have to cost that much).
Cookies, french fries, a flower you picked for her… etc. See how
easy this can be? Genuine deeds cost less than manipulative deeds.
Money-wise and Karma-wise.

4. You had a bad day. Let me help you out.
This is the text you send right after you put on Marvin Gaye’s
“Let’s get it on”. Girls love massages. Why? Most times they get
touched (and allow the person to touch her), the guy is in the
middle of trying to have sex with her. But to be touched, with no
requirement of sex afterwards, is extremely romantic to girls.
Ironically, if you do give a girl a massage without expecting sex
afterwards, you become a tease – and the girl will get super turned
on by it. Text her that and then give her a massage, or something
more that she’s after.

5. Meet me at _____ tonight.
Add a bit of spice with some spontaneity. Make sure you and the
girl are close enough where she’d be down with it, and it’s not
something that sounds like you’re going to be meeting in a dark,
shady alley. Not a good thing.

6. I miss you.
Self-explanatory. If you know she is missing you as well, it’ll
put a smile to her face.