How to Get Your Wife Back Before Divorce
You just broke up with your wife, and you don’t know what to do.
You are going through different kinds of pain. Even desperation.
You want to learn how to get your wife back before divorce.
Of course you feel hurt. She has been the woman of your life that
gives you well-being. How could you not feel enormous loss when
that is removed from you? And how could your confidence not take a
hit when you can’t help but feel that you might not be good enough?
My name is Frankie and in this article I’m going to show you 3 simple
steps that guide you towards recovery and getting your wife back
together with you before the divorce.
(If you want to learn the “reverse re-attraction process” that gets your
wife to love you like she did before, I recommend that you watch this video)
First Step: No-Contact and Recovery
As soon as you break up, it is important to leave enough space for
you and your wife. If you rush into things, you’ll make things worse.
However much you might feel like it, don’t beg her to take you back.
This space allows you (and her) to recover emotionally. It’s a
healing process that immediately removes the stress of fighting,
giving you space to regrow your self-esteem.
Recovery might take a while because you are going through the cycle
of grief after the break up. You are overwhelmed with negative
thoughts that tend to mislead you from the right path.
If you don’t go through the entire grief cycle to let go of all your
anger, you will never move on – and you will never win back your wife.
One way to recover is by talking with friends and family.
You are dealing with hurt. Any time you get a “hurt,” it gives
back anger. Deal with your anger by accepting it exists. Talking
about it with your good friends and/or family members helps to
Create abundance in your life by occupying your thoughts with things
that are not your wife.
For example, if you are successful with your job, focus on it a bit
more. Gain confidence from the fact that you are *dominating* your
career. This confidence will overflow into other areas of your life.
Think about your friends. Make it a habit to create some sort of
routine – like meeting up once a week to play golf, or having a
pub trivia night.
Bottom line: You want to fill in the gaps of time with positive
things, and avoid staying home alone, which will let the depression
creep back into you.
Second Step: Reflect
You have given your wife space. You haven’t contacted her for at
least a week. Your feelings have calmed down to the place where
you can think clearly. It’s time to figure out what went wrong.
This step is critical in learning how to get your wife back before divorce
happens. If something is broken, there’s a good chance you can fix it.
This is when you think about why things went wrong.
This free eBook gives a good explanation of how hormones can cause
fights with your wife even if you two are in love with each other!
You must consider things from her point of view. How was she feeling and
viewing your actions? Was there a communication disconnect? Where
you being too clingy? Figure out the answer to the question:
“Why did this relationship go wrong?”
Third Step: Reform and Improve Your Life
In this step, you rebuild your self-esteem to a you version 2.0. You are
constantly evolving in life and you always have a vision of what you want
to accomplish with your job or quality of life. Make this vision clear to yourself
and the positivity will project to others.
If you know me, then you know I love to talk about creating abundance
in your life. That means focus on your friends, hobbies, and even
occupy your mind with other girls. When you do this, it will naturally
make you less needy because your life is filled with many things that
contribute to your self-esteem. Abundance will also make you more
ATTRACTIVE to your woman (and other girls).
Going to the Gym or Pickup Sports
Busting out a sweat and getting your heart beating releases endorphins
that naturally make you feel good. Lifting weights converts anger
into the action of moving heavy objects. An action that contributes
to enhancing your muscles for female eyes.
I hope you enjoyed my lessons. If you’re truly serious about getting
your wife back, I recommend that you check out this video.
==> watch it here (this is where I learned my methods)
The greater the emotional connection you had with your wife, the
easier it will be to win her back using the techniques revealed
in this video.
However, you have to be sure you really want your wife back and you
want her want to cancel the divorce.
Because if you apply these strategies, and you end up changing your
mind and not wanting her back, you’re going to be a jerk by breaking
her heart even more.
Whatever decision you take, I wish you the best. Hope you make the